Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Mother's Day Recap

Okay, so it's Wednesday, and my first Mother's Day was three days ago, though Jonathan celebrated it over the course of all last week.

First, I got flowers on Thursday:


Then a dinner date Friday night (always a pleasure not to have to cook!).

On Sunday I was allowed to sleep in until 10:30 AM (which is unheard of in our house!), and then went to a cookout at a colleague's house. It was fun, and Emily got in her swimsuit for the first time this summer, and "played" (i.e. crawled around on her towel on the concrete far away from the wet grass) with another little boy in the sprinklers. In fact, she got her first kiss - two of them, to be accurate. We're going to have our hands full with this one! But of course, we didn't have the camera. *sigh* Next time, we will be armed, so be prepared! :-)

I hope everyone else had a wonderful Mother Day! In fact, if you have a memorable story, post it below!

Monday, May 11, 2009

Monday's Recipe

I'm enjoying cooking again, and especially since we are back on Weight Watchers, am going for very healthy, but yet still very tasty, foods. Anyway, I've decided to make Monday my recipe day. Feel free to comment, or even post your own variations!

Grilled Chicken with Black Bean Corn "Salsa"


Serves 4 (approx 480 calories a serving)

Ingredients:

4 chicken breasts
1/2 cup corn kernels
1/2 cup chopped tomatoes
1/2 cup black beans (rinse if canned)
1 Tbsp chopped fresh cilantro
1 Tbsp lime juice
3 cups cooked brown rice

1. Season chicken breasts (salt and pepper, or if you want more of a "kick", use a different seasoning. My favorite seasoning at the moment is McCormick's Grill Mates Steak Rub), and grill until done.

2. While chicken is grilling, mix remaining ingredients and put in fridge until chicken is done.

3. Dish salsa onto the chicken and serve with rice. Enjoy!


(not my picture, but this is very close...)

Now, Jonathan and I often like to chop up our chicken, and roll up the chicken and black bean corn salsa in a tortilla wrap for a burrito effect. Old Mission has several great wraps, including their original, sun-dried tomato basil, spinach herb, garden vegetable, and whole wheat. Also, it's great dish for leftovers! The salsa tastes even better after it has sat for awhile.

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Picture Day!

For me, at least! I desperately needed a picture taken for work for two reasons - one for my business cards and second for a picture on the wall for our branch leader/manager section. But, I was not at the last conference where they took pictures, so I needed to have one taken, send it into the publishing company, and Lord willing, they can use it.

So it took us about an hour - we got lots of good pictures, but my stupid glasses caught a glare, no matter where we were, indoor or out. So we took them off, and this is picture Jonathan and I both choose as the best one for the day:



I have a bit of hair in my eye (the wind was blowing), but good grief, it was the best one that came out. I sure hope they can use it!

Anywho, I'm heading to bed - we have a full day tomorrow!

Happy Mother's Day to every mom out there!

--Debbie

PS I've posted again on our joint blog that is following our weight-loss journey; check it out at http://jdrogers.blogspot.com/.

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Another Day, Another Dollar...

....no wait! Not for me today - I stayed home from work with Emily as she seems to have a bug: fever, and all the nasty stuff Mommy's have to go through with a sick one that seem a bit TMI to put on the blog. My plan was to work this afternoon, but after she finally went down for a nap at 2:00 pm, I was tired that I went down for a nap, too. For two and a half hours. I never, EVER sleep like that, not even after Emily was a newborn. Jonathan was shocked. But I'm working Saturday, so it's not that I lost a day this week. But her fever broke, some of her appetite back, and she currently seems to be sleeping restfully, and I just pray that it lasts through the night!

Anywho, no major news for us, though the land clearing is done, finally, after a lot of rain and the logging trucks getting stuck, numerous times, though I managed to keep our zippy Nitska-Nissan going up and down our now demolished driveway (you are not allowed to ask about my mud incident from the month of April, though!). Not much will be done next week, but I think the week after will be a big one, with the well and septic going in.

The only other news is that Jonathan and I are back on Weight Watchers. We had unofficially stopped this fall when we moved here and had horrid Internet service, thus our online WW as pretty useless. But we both need it, and I've seen myself settle into some fairly horrid eating habits since the move to the other office: I drink coffee all day, and usually don't eat until I get home, and then end out waaaay overeating. So I'm trying to get back into the habit of eating regularly again, and dropping down to one cup of coffee a day (two if I have an evening training or appointment).

But Jonathan just picked up a movie for us, so I must go. Curious Case of Benjamin of Button, here we come!


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When a little somebody is not sick... :-p

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

The month of April has not been my most favorite month in the past year. It's been very busy! Shall I list it out?

1. Transferred to a new office (same company) on April 1st.

2. Cooked Easter Eve meal and Easter dinner for 20 people and had to deal with all the family drama there.

3. Emmy had to get shots again this month. :-(

4. Spent 4 days in Charlotte, NC, for training for my move to our other office.

5. We did take a day trip to Savannah, GA, on the first Saturday of April. It was fun, but we did get rained out.

6. Have tried to adapt to a new routine. My days start much, much earlier, which has made my time with Emily a bit shorter every day. Jonathan loves it though, as Emily sleeps in more, so she is more rested and cheery in the morning.

7. We've had very little time for just the three of us, with people in and out of the house. Hopefully, that will change coming up here in May, as we get things lined up for our own living arrangements.

We are praying for a wonderful May, and an awesome finish to the work week for me (I need it for office production and so does our checkbook!). I'm trying to balance work and family and taking care of myself, so we'll evaluate as the new month begins.

Be blessed! :-)

Monday, April 27, 2009

Easy Quick Breakfast

Okay, as a very busy working mommy, I'm always on the look-out for easy and quick meals. Here's a new one I did today for us:

Bacon Egg "Cups
"

Ingredients:
4 eggs

4 slices turkey bacon

1/2 pound sausage or 4 links of sausage, cooked and crumbled
shredded cheddar cheese

1. Preheat oven to 350°F.

2. Spray a muffin tin with non-stick spray. Line bottom of four muffin cups with loose sausage so that it covers the bottom of each one and pat down.

3. Wrap bacon around inside "wall" of each cup.

4. Crack an egg in each bacon "cup".

5. Sprinkle each with cheese.

6. Bake 20 minutes until cooked and golden brown.

Enjoy! :-)


Tuesday, April 14, 2009

The Twilight Saga & My Thoughts

I was recently introduced to new series of books and read through them to see what all the hype was about swirling around them. This is not really a review, but my thoughts that I've compiled regarding the four books by Stephanie Meyer, "Twilight", "New Moon", "Eclipse", and "Breaking Dawn".

*spoiler warning* I will mention some spoilers, so if you don't want to know how it ends, you might want to stop reading now.

In a nutshell, Belle, our heroine, falls in love with Edward, who happens to be a "vegetarian" vampire, who feeds off of animals and denies his lust for human blood, as does the rest of his coven-family. The books center around their relationship, and Belle's relationship with Jacob, her best friend, who becomes a shape shifter werewolf, the only true enemy a vampire has. Eventually, Belle yearns to become a vampire herself, so she will never have to be separated from Edward, her soul-mate. Edward is reluctant, as he believes to turn her will take her soul, but demands that if she insists, that she become his wife first. They do marry, and get shockingly pregnant, a huge surprise becomes vampires can't conceive together, but apparently vampires and humans can. The pregnancy kills Belle, but Edward turns her into a vampire before her heart stops beating, and thus, she becomes immortal with him. Their daughter becomes a figure that brings unity to humans, vampires (vegetarian and non-vegetarian alike), as well as the werewolfs, and thus the saga ends with Bella, Edward, and their daughter living immortally happily-ever-after.

*Note* This is not the type of book I usually read. I love the fantasy genre, but have never been drawn the romanticism of vampires, so this was a step-out for me to read this series.

Thought #1: One of the huge positives I see with these series has to do with Belle and Edward's relationship; it is flawed. They fight and argue, miscommunicate (a lot), give and take, and also wait until their wedding to consummate their relationship, though their honeymoon was not a dreamy fantasy - it was filled with conflict. Nowadays, you don't see a lot of abstinence and self-control in mainstream America, especially pointed at teens (however, I think they could have saved themselves some heartache in that area while they were dating by avoiding some temptations all together, but that is just my two cents on that). In addition, I think the author builds up the sexual aspect a lot for a series aimed at teenage girls, and is setting them up for disappointment in real life. Goodness, I wish I had fireworks with my first kiss, instead of the reality of awkwardness most people experience! :-p But Edward and Belle's physical relationship is a high-note, as Edward resists Belle again and again (both as a vampire and as a man), as much as she pushes and tempts him.

Thought #2: Is the other end of the spectrum with Edward and Belle's relationship. Belle routinely lies and tries to hide her relationship from her father, and is amazed at herself at how the lying and manipulation becomes easier throughout the series. Edward finally forces her hand and she has to let him know about them, but he never knows the whole truth until the very end. In the end, however, everything is hunky-dory with them, once he has turned her. It ends very happily-ever-after, and in my option, a little too perfect.
Thought #3: The vampires are very glorified in this series (obviously), and this bothers me some. The myth of vampires is rooted in the belief that they are evil, souless, and doomed. The "Twilight Saga" portrays them as immortal good beings, as Edward's coven/family denies their human bloodlust. Throughout the book Edward is compared to angelic beings, and even a couple times, Belle thinks of him as an immortal god. I was struck that in the scene where Edward shows Belle why he skips school on sunny days - they are in a mountainous meadow and he steps into the sunlight for her, and shows her that his skin is like sparkling diamonds in the sunlight. Anyone else get the jolt of a comparison of Jesus' transfiguration? And that leads me to...
Thought #4: There is is subtle religious doctrine evident throughout the books. In a sense, one could almost come Belle to Mary. Self-sacrificing, pure of heart, immune to the supernatural talents of the vampires, she becomes miraculously pregnant with an immortal half-human, half-vampire child, when all thought vampires could not bear children. Then in a violent birth, she dies, and Edward "resurrects" her, into her perfect immortal form, where she and her husband and daughter live out their afterlife in our time. On a similar note, their daughter, Renesemee, is a savior-figure to the various races affected in these books. I know Ms. Meyers was a graduate of Brigham Young University, and though I'm no expert on Mormonism, I do know a few main points and see the influence in the writings, whether she made it intentional or not.
So, what was my option?
They were a fun read; I couldn't hardly put them down as I wanted to see what happened next. Book Three, "Eclipse", was probably my least favorite, as the plot wandered all over the place and mostly focused on the relationship problems Belle and Edward were having.

Yet if Emily was 13, would I let her read them? Nope. And not for the religious standpoints - my hope for Emily is that she will be well-taught in the truth to recognize what is and isn't. No, my objection is that there is too much undercurrent sexuality, and the disillusion of relationships. Not every man (and exspecially teenage boys) as self-controlled as Edward is portrayed, and won't stop and flee when the temptations come. Belle is the one who is aggressive with Edward in this area, and hates the idea of marriage. In fact, she felt horribly trapped when Edward gave his ultimatum- no marriage, no sex, and was resentful towards him for saying that and sticking to it. Not the role model I want my daughter to have.

Would I recommend this series to others? Perhaps, but there are better fantasy series out there. Of course, Tolkien is a favorite, but for newer material, Christopher Panolini's "Inheritance Cycle" comes to mind first - the writing and story lines are much, much better.

I may write a formal critique later. I actually am reading through them again, slowly, to explore some of my first initial thoughts of the books, instead of reading to see what happens next. In the meantime, if you are die hard Twilight fan, don't crucify me for my observations.